Love or Lust?

Okay....here I was one bright, sunny day and I wondering about the concept of Love and Lust. What exactly is Love and what is Lust. Can they be inter-changed? This concept is very confusing especially among the youths. So I decided to check the dictionary meaning of both words and this is what I got. Love: - feel desire for somebody: to feel romantic and sexual desire and longing for somebody OR have sex with somebody: to have sexual intercourse with somebody. Here also is the dictionary definition of Lust: - the strong physical desire to have sex with somebody, usually without associated feelings of love or affection OR desire sexually: to feel a strong desire to have sex with somebody.

Wow...after checking up the meaning of these words, i became more confused. How do I explain the fact that Lust means the strong physical desire to have SEX with someone, usually associated with FEELINGS OF LUST, OR THE FACT THAT Love is the SEXUAL desire and longing for somebody. Is it me or do both of these words not have an association with SEX? Yes... they definitely do. So I don’t see what all the fuss is about when I hear people, especially female folks, saying that they Love their boyfriends or male companions and they expect them (the guys) to use the same words (love) when replying them. Why can’t I see a beautiful girl on the street and walk up to her and say ‘’ I lust after you’’. Why do I have to tell her that I love her when both words definitely have the end product which we all know to be sex?

Why are females so stuck up on the word love that they want to hear it continuously for the rest of their lives? For me I think that’s just a very easy way for guys to have a piece of that ass. I walk up to a chick and after some scooping; I tell her what she is itching to hear. Well u all know what comes next. Left to me, I don’t see why these chicks make me tell lies all the time. I lust after you but am just telling you I love you so things would be easier for me. I thinks if chicks just let go of this notion of wanting to always here ‘’I love you’’ all the time, things would be much better.